AOM Meditations: 042616

April 26, 2016, 3:09 am

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by John Singer Sargent

Thanks to our Friend for sending us this beautiful art

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“Be real.
Embrace that you have weakness.
Because everyone does.
Embrace that your body is not perfect.
Because nobody’s is.
Embrace that you have things you can’t control.
We all have a list of them.”

~Dan Pearce
(Single Dad Laughing)

~*~

"At the core of your heart,
you are perfect and pure.
No one and nothing can alter that.”

~Amit Ray
(Meditation: Insights and Inspirations)

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Hey Sweetie! 042616

April 26, 2016, 3:13 am

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Kevin Warhol from Bel Ami

Hey Sweetie,

I apologize for my late start

My sleeping patterns are off

And I slept through my usual posting time

I had to quickly put posts together

I hope you will enjoy your visit

I wish you a beautiful day!

Peace and Love,

AOM

~*~

I invite you to join me now in this short Metta Prayer
Radiating the energy of peace and love out to all living beings

Take a few deep breaths to clear your mind
And focus on the here and now
This present moment

Now
Breathe in
Filling your being with peace and love
As you begin each line, breathe out slowly
Breathing these thoughts into the world
Reading, thinking, and feeling the words with peace and love
Sending them from your heart
Giving the energy to yourself and to all living beings
Breathe in and repeat the process for each line

Namaste
"The Spirit within me salutes the Spirit in you"

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Parting Shot: 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:01 pm

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I invite you to join us

for a Special Sunday Posting

Logan and many others

Will be here to celebrate with us

Have a Jizz-tastic day and weekend

Hope to see you Sunday!!!

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Booty Time! 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:02 pm

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Max Ryder from Bel Ami: 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:03 pm

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Colorful Beauty: 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:04 pm

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MUSIC: Footloose Final Dance 1984 to 2011

April 26, 2016, 10:05 pm

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Watch the first video then the second
The first is very, very short

John Lithgow parodies his earlier role in Footloose

3rd Rock from the Sun - Footloose homage

~*~
The Original 1984 Footloose dance,
followed up by the adaptation of it to 2011 styles of dancing.

1984: Kenny Loggins
2011: Blake Shelton

Footloose Final Dance 1984 to 2011

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AOM Meditatons: 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:06 pm

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by Vincent van Gogh

Thanks to our Friend for sending us this beautiful art

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The problem with the world is,
far too many people drain their energy
into what is wrong with their life;
instead of holding gratitude
for what's right in their life.”

~Nikki Rowe

~*~

“It does not matter
how long you are spending on the earth,
how much money you have gathered or
how much attention you have received.
It is the amount of positive vibration
you have radiated in life that matters.”

~Amit Ray
(Meditation: Insights and Inspirations)

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Hey Sweetie! 042716

April 26, 2016, 10:07 pm

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Hey Sweetie,

Happy Hump Day!!!

This will be the last post of this week

We will have a special Sunday posting on May 1st

So we can begin our month-long celebration

I hope to see you Sunday

I wish you a beautiful day and a wonderful weekend

Peace and Love,

AOM

~*~

Namaste
"The Spirit within me salutes the Spirit in you"

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Parting Shot: 050116

April 30, 2016, 10:01 pm

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Wishing you a Very Merry

Masturbation Month of May

Get Jizzy with it!

: p

((((HUGS))))

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Booty Time! 050116

April 30, 2016, 10:02 pm

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Masturbation Celebration! 050116

April 30, 2016, 10:03 pm

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Celebrate Loving Yourself

NOTE:

Click OLDER POSTS

Below and to the Right

To see the rest of today's posts

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MUSIC: "Masturbation" by Rodney Carrington

April 30, 2016, 10:04 pm

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A Funny Song to Enjoy

Lyrics:

(You may need to read along

To understand all the words)

I was twelve years old when I learned to masturbate
I was peekin' through my brother's door staring at his date
She wasn't fine but I didn't care

and I barely had any pubic hair
Long as she moved, hell that's okay with me

When your twelve years old your dick will grow
whenever the wind starts to blow
It's hard to explain but the feeling's great
Lord, I love to masturbate
Just grab a hold and don't let go
You can do it fast or you can do it slow
When you get through - hell do it again
You might even want to show your friends

how to masturbate

Rodney Carrington
"Masturbation"

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AOM Meditations: 050116

April 30, 2016, 10:05 pm

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by Todd Yeager

~*~

Advice From A Masturbation Coach

from Sacred Touch for Men (link)

"I wrote this for men’s site that focuses, among other things, on our sexuality. I thought I’d share it here too…

Yes, I coach men on how to make masturbation a more satisfying experience. Wait a sec, isn’t this something that most men are pretty accomplished at?

Actually I believe that many of us need help and, yes, some adventuresome men will pay for advice in this area. No, this isn’t just an excuse for a circle jerk.

Most of us learned to masturbate when we were somewhere around 11 to 14 years old. Unfortunately, as adults most of us do it the same way as we learned way back then. The quickie version that most of us still practice may have been useful for us way back when, but often isn’t that satisfying as we age.

Think about it, the early adolescent experience is focused entirely on ejaculation (usually fast and often), not getting caught (quick and quiet) and removing any evidence as quickly as possible (quickly clean up with no time to savor.) We carry this same fervent focus as adults. No wonder I hear so many men complain that while masturbation is a way to have an ejaculation, it’s really not that satisfying. It’s because we’re still wanking the same way.

It’s time to look at masturbation as an adult. So, how do we do that?

Communicate. In some ways male masturbation is the last taboo. We joke about it all the time, but when was the last time you honestly talked about it? Or even consciously thought about how to make it better? Many guys continue the habit developed when we were younger to make masturbation a hidden, furtive experience. When we were younger we hid it from parents, in school we hid it from roommates and as adults we hide it from our partners. I don’t believe that it can truly become a pleasurable practice until we communicate with our partners about it.

Masturbation is a great way when we’re younger to learn about sexuality. Later, we enter into relationships and mistakenly believe that this part of our erotic life will suddenly go away to be replaced with partnered connection. The reality for many is that both continue to co-exist. Partnered sex and solo sex meet different and complimentary human needs. One of the most intimate ways of connecting with your partner is to talk about your solo activities. Talk with your partner about your practice and find ways to be more open about what you already do. Take your masturbation out of the bathroom!

Slow down. Now that you have some room to be more open about your practice don’t be in such a rush. Warm up your body by taking the first 15 or 20 minutes and involve your entire body except for your genitals. You wouldn’t start a workout without a warm-up; erotic practice is no different. Use this time to check in with your body and discover what your body really wants. Practice quieting your mind and listen to your body. Become aware of the dissonance between what your head wants and you’re your body wants. Maybe you don’t need the usual fast and furious stroking; slow and sensual can be a nice change of pace.

Try out different strokes. Even using your other hand can offer a very different experience. When we slow down we begin to notice new and subtle sensations that are often overlooked when things are going so fast. Oh, and since you already talked with your partner, you can take your time!

Savor. Most guys use our sense of vision much more than the other senses. Close your eyes. If you’re adventurous put on a blindfold. Discover what there is to experience from the other senses. Let go of goals and bring your attention to the pleasures of the journey. By slowing down, those subtle sensations that signal an approaching orgasm become much more apparent.

I suggest looking at erotic pleasure on a scale from one to 10; one is hardly feeling anything and 10 is orgasm. Look at the subtle differences between a six and a seven. When approaching an eight, try to practice coming back down to a seven. When in the nine to 10 range, slow down even more and feel what there is to savor.

Turn off the porn. Porn can be a spark to get things started, but it quickly becomes distracting. Porn is nothing more than manufactured erotic fantasy. It takes us away from the experience. It’s all too easy to lose sensation in the body because we’re fixated on what’s on the screen. But many guys will say, “Without porn it’s boring.” When you close your eyes and bring your attention inward to savor the experience many men quickly that porn isn’t needed. If some external stimulation is important, consider aural stimulation. The sound of other people can be very exciting to hear and doesn’t remove us from our own experience.

Make it a practice. A workout regimen is a practice. Yoga is a practice. Masturbation can be a practice too. Keep striving to learn new things about yourself. Tell your partner what you’re learning and incorporate those learnings onto your lovemaking. Make masturbation a conscious choice. Set aside time to savor the gift of your body rather than looking at it the way we did when we were younger.

A practice involves conscious choices. Begin with scheduling. Find time when you aren’t rushed and can clear that task list in your head. When we’re focused on what we have to do next, it’s hard to let go and surrender to the pleasure. A great gift of sex is that it can be a mind wash to help us put all parts of life into perspective. Use this gift with intention.

Be conscious around ejaculation. Ejaculation when the body doesn’t need it is draining; ejaculation when the body does want it is life-affirming. I believe that there are times when we need to ejaculate and there are times when we don’t. Learn how to differentiate the two. Listen to your body; sometimes the message is quite loud. Follow what you body needs rather than the habits we’ve developed.

Try out some of these ideas and see what it’s like to move an important part of our erotic life to more accurately reflect our adult desires. It’s time to grow up." (Source)

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April 30, 2016, 10:06 pm

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One of my favorite Masturbation Scenes

From one of my favorite movies

If you haven't seen it

SEE IT!

If you have seen it

SEE IT AGAIN!!

I highly recommend owning the DVD

I chose this short movie clip

To start off our month-long celebration

The end of this short clip is

Perfection!

Pleasantville
"The Discovery of Masturbation Scene"

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The Masturbation Month Olympic Flame has been lit.
Let the Games Begin!!!!!

~*~

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Hey Sweetie! Happy Masturbation Month

April 30, 2016, 10:07 pm

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SPECIAL SUNDAY EDITION

Hey Sweetie,

HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH!!!!!!!

Masturbation is the cornerstone for all human sexuality. Through it, we learn new ways to give ourselves and our lovers pleasure. Whether we are single or in a relationship, masturbation is an integral part of a healthy lifestyle. Appreciate the importance of masturbation in your life. Learn to feel good about masturbation as much as masturbation makes you feel good. Overcome any guilt or negative feelings you were taught to have about masturbation. Recognize how natural and healthy it is. Let us embrace it as a gift in which to celebrate life and making love to ourselves. Masturbation is a most beautiful spiritual act.

Last week, I went in search of information concerning masturbation to share on AOM. I was astounded that in this modern age, there are still people who consider masturbation sinful, damaging, and unhealthy. There is an extraordinary amount of misinformation out on the Internet concerning one of life's blessings. Because of this, AOM celebrates masturbation with more emphasis during the month of May in order to promote healthy attitudes and to provide correct information about masturbation.

I hope you will join our
Masturbation Celebration

To get started it is very important

to stretch before our sessions

: )

I hope you will enjoy and join in our

Masturbation Celebration

I wish you a Jizz-tastic day

Peace and Love,

AOM

~*~

Science is now finding that
There is a global effect when a large group of people
are experiencing something similar emotionally
The power of our collective hearts

can make a difference in the world

I invite you to join me now in this short Metta Prayer
Radiating the energy of peace and love out to all living beings

Take a few deep breaths to clear your mind
And focus on the here and now
This present moment

Now
Breathe in
Filling your being with peace and love
As you begin each line, breathe out slowly
Breathing these thoughts into the world
Reading, thinking, and feeling the words with peace and love
Sending them from your heart
Giving the energy to yourself and to all living beings
Breathe in and repeat the process for each line